Misconceptions About Male submissives
Ok, so I’m out walking to the store yesterday and this guy is trying to pick me up. Yay summer dresses *sigh*
He was fairly aggressive, but not in that Dom kind of way - just a vanilla guy wanting a girl. Well, I don’t bother with regular dating, vanilla guys or any of that shit, so I’m honest with people. Also, I guess I always look like a Dominatrix, cause I’m always getting asked by ‘nilla people if I am one. Needless to say, it came up pretty early in the conversation (he asked).
So First of all, I don’t get why some idiot men think that I can be ‘tamed’ by the right ‘alpha male’ (how he described himself). I will not submit. It’s not who I am. I am a Domme. I don’t switch, I don’t bottom, I wont put up with your ‘alpha’ shit. Also, if you have to tell me you’re an alpha male, you aren’t one. Just sayin’
Now, the type of guy that I do like came up. I like submissive men. They turn me on. Remember how I’m a Domme? Now, this guy seemed to link submissive with wimpy. Pisses me off every time. While there certainly are some submissive men who are effeminate or quiet or whatever, I seriously doubt any of them are wimpy. It takes a lot of guts for a guy to go against everything our society teaches him and admit to himself and others that he would prefer to submit than Dominate. He gets points in my book for that alone. Not to mention some of the pain sluts I’ve played with - So not wimpy at all! Some of those boys have taken beatings so harsh I scared myself.
Now, on top of all that, I like strong men. I like big men. I like very manly men. They look so nice on their knees at my feet. I have no interest in dominating a man that I could easily over power - where is the fun in that? My D/s relationships with men are different than those I have with women.
Well, to wrap up my rant, the guy had a really cute puppy that I got to play with. He asked me to go to a swingers party that his friend organizes at someone’s house (that doesn’t come across as sketchy at all!), was disappointed when I told him I’m not into the swinging scene and let him know that I’m aware of at least 3 well known swing clubs in the city (I think he was trying to impress me with how freaky he was). I hope I get to see that puppy again though. It was really cute.
/rant
He was fairly aggressive, but not in that Dom kind of way - just a vanilla guy wanting a girl. Well, I don’t bother with regular dating, vanilla guys or any of that shit, so I’m honest with people. Also, I guess I always look like a Dominatrix, cause I’m always getting asked by ‘nilla people if I am one. Needless to say, it came up pretty early in the conversation (he asked).
So First of all, I don’t get why some idiot men think that I can be ‘tamed’ by the right ‘alpha male’ (how he described himself). I will not submit. It’s not who I am. I am a Domme. I don’t switch, I don’t bottom, I wont put up with your ‘alpha’ shit. Also, if you have to tell me you’re an alpha male, you aren’t one. Just sayin’
Now, the type of guy that I do like came up. I like submissive men. They turn me on. Remember how I’m a Domme? Now, this guy seemed to link submissive with wimpy. Pisses me off every time. While there certainly are some submissive men who are effeminate or quiet or whatever, I seriously doubt any of them are wimpy. It takes a lot of guts for a guy to go against everything our society teaches him and admit to himself and others that he would prefer to submit than Dominate. He gets points in my book for that alone. Not to mention some of the pain sluts I’ve played with - So not wimpy at all! Some of those boys have taken beatings so harsh I scared myself.
Now, on top of all that, I like strong men. I like big men. I like very manly men. They look so nice on their knees at my feet. I have no interest in dominating a man that I could easily over power - where is the fun in that? My D/s relationships with men are different than those I have with women.
Well, to wrap up my rant, the guy had a really cute puppy that I got to play with. He asked me to go to a swingers party that his friend organizes at someone’s house (that doesn’t come across as sketchy at all!), was disappointed when I told him I’m not into the swinging scene and let him know that I’m aware of at least 3 well known swing clubs in the city (I think he was trying to impress me with how freaky he was). I hope I get to see that puppy again though. It was really cute.
/rant
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